I’m a licensed therapist and author of Raising Trans Kids, supporting caregivers of trans youth. I share resources, reflections, and real-world guidance on identity, parenting, and allyship -through my blog and this newsletter. You’re not alone. Let’s navigate this together.
Why Are Men So Obsessed With Ancient Rome?!
Hello Reader
The internet has borne witness to myriad trends, but few as intriguing to me as the recent viral question posed to men: "How often do you think about Ancient Rome?" While it's easy to dismiss this as a simple internet oddity or even an emblem of male power fantasies and misogyny, closer examination reveals a complex tapestry of modern anxieties, gender socialization, racial dynamics, and the loneliness inherent in modern masculinity. In this light, the question about Ancient Rome becomes less about the empire itself and more about a search for meaning, belonging, and emotional resonance in a world that often leaves men feeling isolated. Click below to read more of my take on men's fascination with Ancient Rome!
| Read: Men Are Lonely; It's Why They're Obsessed with Ancient Rome |
Disarming Disinformation: Virtual Panel Discussion with Boston PFLAG
Back-to-school season is upon us, and GBPLAG has invited me to speak on their panel this Thursday!
Have you heard false statements, seen poorly-supported 'theories', or been asked by family and friends about news stories that alarm them? Congratulations! You've been exposed to misinformation or disinformation. Now, we all know that misinformation and disinformation can be like a nasty virus that spreads faster than wildfire. So, if you're a parent/caregiver, it's absolutely crucial that we roll up our sleeves and tackle this head-on when it comes to affirming LGBTQ+ students. Join me and 3 other expert panelists this Thursday, September 28, 2023 6:30 - 7:30 PM ET for Disarming Disinformation: A Back To School Virtual Panel with parents, educators, experts, and community members all gathering for a chat on how to spot false narratives, kick them to the curb, and create a more inclusive world.
Mark your calendars, invite your folks, and let's kick some disinformation to the curb together!
| Register for the Virtual Panel Here! |
Queer Connection Yoga Retreat: Online & On Sale!
We believe that yoga, connection, and community should be accessible to everyone. That's why, as we gear up for the Queer Community Connection Virtual Yoga Retreat, we're offering a special two-week sale to ensure every one of you has a chance to be a part of this transformative experience.
We listened to your valuable feedback, and we're thrilled to make our retreat more accessible to all by going virtual! Join us for an unforgettable two-day experience with the same captivating workshops you were interested in, now including a Somatic Dance class! Connect with the vibrant queer community through engaging discussions, fostering personal growth and connections. This experience offers you the opportunity to dive into a transformative yoga experience and embrace the inclusive energy of our community. We have two different price options for this retreat. Come join us for days filled with yoga, connection, and self-care! Click the button below to learn more and book your ticket now!
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Will I See You At TransHarvard?
TransHarvard is the largest student-run Trans+-focused event in the world and it is FREE to attend! I will be presenting the "Are You Ok?" Project Pop-Up Exhibit with Jesse Freidin at TransHarvard this October 6-8th! Our very own M. Joyce-Anderson will also be presenting! Hope to see you there! Don't wait, grab your ticket now!
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Take care,
Rebecca Minor, LICSW (She/Her)
Creator of the "How to Talk to Kids about Gender" course
Gender Specialist
I’m a licensed therapist and author of Raising Trans Kids, supporting caregivers of trans youth. I share resources, reflections, and real-world guidance on identity, parenting, and allyship -through my blog and this newsletter. You’re not alone. Let’s navigate this together.
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