I’m a licensed therapist and author of Raising Trans Kids, supporting caregivers of trans youth. I share resources, reflections, and real-world guidance on identity, parenting, and allyship -through my blog and this newsletter. You’re not alone. Let’s navigate this together.
15 Ways to Support Trans People During Anti-Trans Legislation
Hi Reader,
“I want to support I just don’t know what to do…”
“I don’t want to make it awkward so I just don’t do anything…”
“I had no idea this stuff was going on…”
Over the last couple of weeks, I've heard several non-trans people make these comments. The reality is that you likely work alongside, socialize with, or have family members who identify as trans. Now more than ever, it's crucial to support and advocate for our trans colleagues, friends, and family members, especially given the current legislative climate that poses a threat to their basic human rights and safety. That's why I'm excited to share some practical tips and advice that Chris Angel Murphy and I brainstormed and crowdsourced from trans and nonbinary individuals for being a supportive ally:
15 Ways to Support Trans People During Anti-Trans Legislation
In this blog, we'll cover ways to ensure that the trans people in your life feel seen, heard, and respected. While these tips aren't foolproof, they do provide valuable guidance and offer ways to provide appropriate support based on your relationship with the trans folks in your life. Click here to read the blog.
It's Trans Week of Visibility and Action (TWOVA)
I have updated more resources and ways to take action on the Protect Trans Youth page! My hope is that it takes the guesswork out of it for you and leaves no excuses for inaction!
You can start by registering for our free webinar below! Reply to this email and let me know what action steps you are taking!
Register for Thursday's Webinar: Speak Up For TDOV 3/30
Want to talk about anti-trans legislation but don’t know where to start?
Do these conversations feel overwhelming?
Have you struggled to know what to say to common anti-trans arguments?
Are you not sure how to get involved, period?
Come for a 1.5-hour webinar on topics including
- Real-world implications of anti-trans legislation
- Responses to arguments the opposition makes
- Talking points for personal and professional life
- Handling misinformation
- Taking on emotional labor for trans folks
The event will be hosted on Zoom webinar and attendees will receive a PDF file including a fact sheet and resources.
A recording will be available to those who register for a limited time only.
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Can you do me a favor?
I am doing everything in my power to reach as many people as possible. It would be a huge help if you could send this email to someone who would be interested! We need as many allies as we can get right now.
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Rebecca Minor, LICSW (She/Her)
Creator of the "How to Talk to Kids about Gender" course
Gender Specialist
I’m a licensed therapist and author of Raising Trans Kids, supporting caregivers of trans youth. I share resources, reflections, and real-world guidance on identity, parenting, and allyship -through my blog and this newsletter. You’re not alone. Let’s navigate this together.
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