You’re Doing Great - A Reminder To Parents of Trans Kids


Hello Reader

One of the most meaningful parts of this work is hearing directly from parents themselves—their honesty, their fears, and their deep love for their kids. That’s why I created the Parent Voices series—a space for parents of trans youth to share their experiences anonymously, in their own words. It offers a way to tell their stories openly and honestly, without fear for their safety or the risk of outing their child, and so other parents and caregivers can learn from one another and connect through shared experience.

You’re Doing Great is a message from one parent to others walking this path. It’s a love letter to every parent navigating fear, pride, and hope—reminding us that showing up for our kids, even when it’s hard, is world-changing work.

Whether you’re feeling strong today or stretched thin, I hope this reflection reminds you that the care you give matters deeply—and that you really are doing great.

A Place to Talk Things Through

When you’re holding worry and love at the same time, support matters.

At Prism Therapy Collective, we offer parent coaching for caregivers who want support navigating this moment with care, confidence, and compassion. Coaching is a space to ask questions, think things through, and get guidance without judgment or pressure to have everything figured out.

In addition to providing virtual parent coaching and identity coaching regardless of location, Prism offers in-person therapy in Acton, MA; virtual therapy across MA, NH, ME, and VT; and neuropsychological evaluations in person in Acton, MA and virtually across MA and ME.

We currently have immediate openings. You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin.

Take care,

Rebecca Minor, LICSW (She/Her)

Author of "Raising Trans Kids: What to Expect When You Weren't Expecting This" book

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I’m a licensed therapist and author of Raising Trans Kids, supporting caregivers of trans youth. I share resources, reflections, and real-world guidance on identity, parenting, and allyship -through my blog and this newsletter. You’re not alone. Let’s navigate this together.

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